Ghanaian marriage counsellor Charlotte Adu Poku, formerly known as Charlotte Oduro, has spoken about the emotional and social challenges she experienced following her divorce from Solomon Oduro.
Speaking on Talklife TV on April 21, 2026, she highlighted the broader difficulties many women face after ending their marriages, particularly the stigma attached to divorce.
“The Stigma Is Often More Painful Than the Divorce”
According to Charlotte, the most difficult aspect of her experience was not the separation itself, but the reaction from society.
She explained that divorced women are often judged unfairly, with cultural expectations placing pressure on them to remain in marriages regardless of circumstances.
“It is not even the divorce that is the concern. It is the stigma that comes with it,” she said.
Public Criticism and Social Media Reactions
Charlotte revealed that she faced criticism on social media, including comments from a pastor who questioned her decision and suggested she should feel ashamed.
She noted that such reactions reflect a broader societal mindset about marriage and gender roles.
Despite this, she chose not to disclose the individual’s identity, instead focusing on the wider issue.
Standing Firm Without Shame
The counsellor emphasised that she does not feel ashamed of her divorce and instead views her experience as a source of strength.
According to her, leaving the marriage was necessary for her well-being and personal safety.
“I am not ashamed… I saved my life,” she stated.
She added that her story could encourage other women facing similar challenges to make decisions that prioritise their health and future.
Criticism Within Religious Circles
Charlotte also pointed out that some of the strongest criticism came from within religious communities.
She expressed concern about how personal decisions, such as divorce, can become subjects of public commentary, particularly within faith-based spaces.
A Call for Understanding and Respect
She questioned why divorced individuals, especially women, are often judged harshly, stressing that personal decisions should not automatically attract condemnation.
Charlotte further stated that she would not accept intimidation or public shaming over her marital status.
The Bigger Picture: Divorce, Society, and Changing Perspectives
Her comments contribute to ongoing conversations about divorce, societal expectations, and gender roles in Ghana.
As more individuals speak openly about personal experiences, discussions around marriage and separation continue to evolve, highlighting the need for empathy and balanced perspectives.
