Before you sleep with her, Dear Men. Read what I have for you.
You finally got her! Now she is in your bed. You helped her remove her cloth! You have removed your clothes too. See her curves! Wow now, you are so hard, and she is horny too, and you just want to get in there.
But, Consider these things before you have an intercourse with her.
Do you really love her?
Yes. I know you like her buttocks. I know she has big breasts, or you just enjoy those breasts. I know you like the way she talks. But do you really love the person she is?
After sleeping with her, what next?
Will you still love those breasts? Will you still love her smile?
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What if she gets pregnant?
You heard that right. Will she face the world alone, or will you stand by her? Are you ready to stand as a man and say yes? I am responsible. We both did it; it is our baby! Or will you look for excuses?
If she calls to tell you that she is pregnant, will you tell her to abort it and risk her life, or will you tell her to keep the baby?
It is very important. If she gives birth, can you take care of the baby? Can you meet the emotional, mental, psychological, and financial demands in this hard economy?
Is she someone you can marry or someone you just want to sleep with? Imagine if this was your sister with someone else. If she is good enough for you to sleep with, why can’t she be good enough to be your wife? Why can’t you marry her as your wife and then enjoy everything after?
If you sleep with her and leave her, Think about how sad it will be. Think about the pains and the sorrows. Imagine if this is done to your child!
Think about tomorrow. Don’t just think about today. I know you just want to do it! Your hormones are up. What will happen when your hormones are down?
This is just a piece of advice for the youth. You may have had past experiences, but don’t make the same mistake again. Think about or ask yourself these questions before you take the next plunge.
